Margo's Resources

Check back often as more resources will be added as they are discovered.  So if you have one you feel is beneficial, I’d love to know about it. 

 

SEX TOYS FOR THE DIFFERENTLY-ABLED BODIES

 

Bump’n Joystick

The Joystick has been designed by sexual health and wellness experts, Occupational Therapists and the disabled community – making it the first in a line of sex toys designed for and by disabled people, to be enjoyed by all.

Its bigger than you think, the hole in the center holds your favorite sex toy as your straddle the joystick and snuggle with the cushion top. 

Grasping Wrist Cuff

Grasping Cuff With Wrist Support is designed for activities requiring a racket, cue, pole, bat or paddle. Those with limited hand function, yet good arm function, can adjust Dycem lined strap, which covers the top of hand and wraps around fingers.

Need help holding onto a paddle, or your favorite sex toy due to weakness in your hands or wrist, try this out. 

Active Hands

Another way for you to hold onto a paddle, or your favorite sex toy due to weakness in your hands or wrist.

 

 

SEX TOYS FOR PELVIC PAIN

 

photo of girl holding oh-but and stretching it out far

OnNuT

Do you have pelvic pain when penetration goes too deeply?

Try this soft, stretchy, and oh-so-comfy, Ohnut.  It is a made of 4 interlocking rings, you can customize the depth—without sacrificing sensation.

 

TOY COMPANIES WE LOVE

 

Womanizer

The first toy for clitoral stimulation using “Pleasure Air” Technology.  If you enjoy your clitoris being lovely pleasured to orgasmic level quickly, this is your toy.  Very little hand movement is needed, just find that right spot and hold it. 

Lovense

This rechargeable vibe that is worn snuggly inside against the G-spot.  Hands-free play as it links to an app on your phone via Bluetooth, or give your control over to your lover. 

 

FURNITURE

 

Liberator

This company makes all sorts of furniture, ramps, wedges and specialty items to help you get in the position you want.  And its all washable. 

Waterproof Blanket

Want to protect your bed from bodily fluids, lube and whatever else you might spill in your bed during sexy time?  Throw this down and then just throw it in the wash after… sheets remain clean and dry! And the sherpa inside is all soft, like a faux bearskin rug. 

 

ANAL PLAY

 

 

Butt Plugs

I love butt plugs that are easy to grab a hold of when your hands are all slippery with lube.  This is just an example, as there are many many butt plugs available. 

Plugs with a suction base can suctioned to a wall or flat surface wall for hands-free insertion, but a helping hand will be needed for removal. 

Butt Plugs

Not sure what size is best you for, start off with a graduated butt plug set.  

I like the ones with loops for my fingers, as its easier to grasp with slippery lube hands. 

 

 

 

STORES WE LOVE !

 

I Love Lube !

And I love this stuff, just really love it.  Especially for anal play, it lasts longer than others.  Bonus! It’s also moisturizing to the skin.

The only drawback is the top is a normal twist off and could be an issue if you have arthritis or issues with your hands. 

Urology Health Store

This is a great site and a place for dilators, incontinence supplies, pelvic floor problems, Erectile dysfunction solutions, and an ejaculator for people with spinal cord injuries.

The Ferticare 2.0 is a powerful penile vibrator that is adjustable.  It was designed in mind for people with limited hand strength or movement, but they said it’s not perfect.  I have not tried this out yet.